Common Body Language Mistakes Salespeople Make
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Why subtraction beats addition
Most reps try to add "powerful" body language. The faster fix is to subtract the tells. The confidence is already there — the tells are masking it.
The top 8 body language mistakes
1. Looking away when stating price
Reads as you don't believe in the number. Hold eye contact through the price. If anything, increase it slightly at the moment of the ask.
2. Crossed arms
Even if you're cold. Buyers read it as defensive. Keep arms uncrossed and hands visible.
3. Tapping or fidgeting
Pen, leg, fingers. All anxiety leaks. Plant the feet and rest the hands.
4. Filling silence with movement
Pacing, swaying, head bobbing. Stillness signals confidence.
5. Over-nodding
The eager-to-please tell. One small nod every 6–10 seconds during listening is plenty.
6. Frozen smile during objections
Reads as scripted. Drop to a calm, neutral expression when handling objections.
7. Touching the face/neck under pressure
Self-soothing tell. Buyers spot it instantly. Keep hands at chest height or resting on the table.
8. Standing over a seated buyer in-home
Power imbalance kills warmth. Always sit at the same level.
The universal fix
A 10-second pre-call reset: feet planted, shoulders down, jaw unclenched, soft smile baseline, hands visible. Run it before every call. The reset interrupts the adrenaline loop that creates most tells.
Drill it
Run a Pitch Practice session with the Presence Checklist on. Read the Body Language Mistakes That Hurt Sales Conversations lesson for the deeper version.
FAQ
What's the single most damaging mistake?
Looking away when stating price. It single-handedly kills more deals than any other tell.
How do I notice my own tells?
Record one call and watch it muted. The tells jump out instantly.
Are these tells the same on Zoom?
Mostly. Add: don't look at your own face on screen, and keep hands inside the frame.
Train it next
- Drill this in AI Pitch Practice with the Presence Checklist active.
- Spar the related objections in Sparring.
- Match the right buyer in Buyer Personality Mode.
- Lock the mindset with the Daily Affirmation Quest.
- Go deeper in the ClosersForge Academy.
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