๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธBody Language & TonalityAdvancedยท 4 min read

Micro-expressions: the 200ms truth

What flickers across their face in a fifth of a second is what they actually think. Catch it.

High-leverage, high-risk plays โ€” only after the basics are automatic.

The principle. Paul Ekman's research: real emotion leaks through the face for 200-500ms before the social mask reasserts. Most people miss it. Trained closers don't.

The 5 micros that matter on sales calls.

  1. Lip compression / pursing โ€” disagreement or skepticism. "I don't believe that." Often when you say a price or a claim.
  2. One-shoulder shrug โ€” uncertainty. They're saying something they don't fully believe (often: "that sounds great").
  3. Eyebrow flash + smile โ€” genuine connection. You said something that landed. Anchor it โ€” repeat the move that earned it.
  4. Eye-block (rub, close, look away >2s) โ€” they're distancing. Something just landed wrong; investigate immediately.
  5. Lean-back + arms crossing โ€” tension spike. Stop pushing, drop your voice, ask an open question.

How to use. Don't call out the micro ("I see you're skeptical!" โ€” never do this). Adjust to it. If you see lip compression after your price reveal, slow down and ask: "What's your gut reaction to that number?" โ€” not, "is that okay?"

Train it. Watch a video call recording at 0.5x speed. Pause after every micro. After a week of this, you start seeing them in real time.

The honesty trap. People can fake words easily. Faking a face for 200ms while listening is much harder. Trust the face over the words when they conflict.

Mini drill

Record one call (with permission) and watch it back at 0.5x. Mark every micro-expression you missed live. Plan one adjustment for each.

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Sources & further reading
  1. BookPaul Ekmanโ€” Telling Lies: Clues to Deceit in the Marketplace, Politics, and Marriage (1985)

    Foundational research on micro-expressions and emotional leakage.

    https://www.paulekman.com/
  2. FrameworkPaul Ekman & Wallace V. Friesenโ€” Facial Action Coding System (FACS) (1978)
    https://www.paulekman.com/facial-action-coding-system/
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